#1: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
“The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida is hands down my #1 favourite book when it comes it understanding and succeeding with women. I’ve read it over 10 times and it is a requirement for all my coaching clients to get a copy of this book.
Attraction between men and women is all about polarity and it works best when you are all man and she is all woman. This is the true meaning behind “opposites attract”, it doesn’t mean having differences, it means being on the opposite sides of the sexual polarity scale.
If you want to learn how to harness your own masculine and learn how to handle today’s woman then grab a copy of this book right away.
#2: No More Mr.Nice Guy by Dr.Robert Glover
Your lack of success with women is mostly down to a faulty paradigm of women, yourself and the world in general that you developed in childhood. Practically every man I coached (and it’s into the hundreds now) fit the “Nice Guy” description.
“Nice Guy” believe that they are “not enough as they are” so they are always trying to live up to other peoples expectations and approval. They see women as having the ultimate say on their worth.
One thing I know is true when it comes to dating: The harder you try to work to get her to like you, the more likely it is that she won’t.
You can’t be a dating coach and not understand or do this work with your clients. It’s essential reading for all my clients. I’d highly recommend grabbing a physical copy.
#3: Open Her by Karen Brody
This book is probably the “best-kept secret” in the dating advice for men market. It’s along the same lines as the “Way of the Superior Man”. Karen teaches 7 Masculine Archetypes you can embody that will naturally activate a woman’s arousal.
What I love about this book is that it is very practical, no fluff or B.S that you find in most books. Every chapter is filled with exercises so that you can implement it right away into your own dating life.
#4: Mate by Tucker Max
This book takes a look at attraction from an evolutionary psychology standpoint and goes into how you can raise your mating value to attract more and higher quality women.
What I like about this book is that it is focused on self-improvement and becoming a better man. There is too much information on “how to approach”, “what to say” etc and not enough emphasis on getting your shit together as a man.
#5: Models by Mark Manson
Mark Manson’s book “Models” was a breath of fresh air to me. When I read it, I was immersed in the world of the Pick-Up Arts studying the Mystery Method, Hypnosis, Daygame Blueprint and so on. What a weight off my shoulders it was to believe that I could attract women without any of that nonsense and I didn’t need to be anyone other than who I was.
#6: The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion
The Alabaster Girl is another great book on understanding sexual polarity and how to cultivate and embody your masculine essence. You can tell that Zan has a deep understanding of how women work and I have no doubt that he actually lives and breathes this stuff. So if you want to read it from the perspective of a modern-day Casanova then check this book out.
If you want to skip the hours of reading and start getting results faster….
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